Anonymous #1 14w

Then why doesn’t she ever make eye contact with me??

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Anonymous OP 14w

Maybe she’s shy, and/or making eye contact feels too intense, because what if you can tell what she’s feeling??

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Anonymous OP 14w

she’s prob nervous

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Anonymous OP 14w

At least those would be my guesses as long as the times she’s talking about you are neutral or positive

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Anonymous #2 14w

Well we did make eye contact once and it was pretty intense. She was looking at me first and our eyes just kinda followed each others and then she started avoiding me after that lol

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Anonymous OP 14w

Uh so what does it mean if she avoided me after

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Anonymous OP 14w

She’s super shy

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Anonymous OP 14w

U should talk to her

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Anonymous #3 14w

She’s a very talkative girl and social at that, but I suppose I can come off as unapproachable or seemingly not wanting to be bothered. She always seemed to be trying to read me instead of trying to talk to me, I think she was scared to but I honestly could never be 100% sure if she liked me or if it was something else

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Anonymous OP 14w

She’s just shy to u bc she likes u. If she didn’t like u she would be talkative and social around you as well

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Anonymous OP 14w

It’s probably different than my situation.. but there’s a guy I have feelings for and I’m too scared to even look him in the eye(and it’s BAD cause he probably thinks I hate him😭) It’s honestly a trauma thing.. like there’s more vulnerability looking someone you have feelings for in the eye vs just some other guy

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Anonymous #4 14w

Actually hearing you say that she’s trying to read you.. it may not be too different than my situation

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Anonymous #4 14w

It’s just the part where she avoided me that confuses me. We finally made eye contact after months of buildup and then her response was to completely avoid me. She’s probably afraid of vulnerability, either that or she looked at me and realized she wanted nothing to do with me

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Anonymous OP 14w

I think she might genuinely just be afraid of vulnerability or if you said you could see how you might be unapproachable.. maybe she also wonders if you want anything to do with her. She could also be unsure if she can trust you depending on how you’ve come across in your interactions maybe. (I’m honestly just speaking from my experience cause that’s why I avoided him 😭. I like him but idk what he wants cause he’s hard to read and hasn’t communicated it)

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Anonymous OP 14w

There was a desk guy at the gym who is cute and he smiles and waves hi and bye or tries to talk to me every day but I just sometimes look away or try to avoid eye contact but I always hope he will say something to me. Tbh if you’re getting the vibe she likes you and you like her and you catch eachother making eye contact it’s probably not nothing

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Anonymous #4 14w

Idk it’s kinda weird now because we went so long without ever talking to each other that the dynamic became very tense. I think she was intimidated to go up to me and she was part of this group so I didn’t want to go and talk to the whole group in order to talk to her. So we kinda just never talked to each other, but I could always hear her talking about me when she though I couldn’t. It’s like we were both building a portfolio on each other because we were both too scared to approach.

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Anonymous OP 14w

As the dude u need to approach her

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Anonymous OP 14w

I’d say if she’s not going to, you should.. but also if you don’t want to it’s not the end of the world. You just might be able to gain clarity by having a conversation

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