I think I’d be a little nervous I’d be seen as just a hook up, but if he seems very patient and like a good match for me then I wouldn’t really care. I care more about whether or not someone has STDs

12

Admittedly yes, it would likely give off a impression that they don’t really want a serious/longterm relationship, but I think if they were really upfront and genuine about wanting something serious it could very likely be worked around

11

Honestly yeah. The thing is I would be worried that I am also just a hookup or that he is attached to being with other people more than being with me

8

Honestly wouldn’t care

8

I mean I think I would want to know if he just didn’t want to date any one of them or if that’s all he cares about. Because I wait a while before I have sex with someone and he would need to be understanding of that in a relationship.

8

what i care abt when it comes to sex: a strong understanding of consent, educated abt pregnancy prevention methods, gets tested for STIs between partners, honesty and good communication, and caring abt my pleasure. idk ur life, im not going to judge u, and i don’t value “body count” as a meaningful measure of a person.

4

i wouldn’t not date someone because of that if i really liked them. but it’s not something i would find particularly appealing

3

Tbh I wouldn’t trust that he’s not a jackass

1

No because clearly he looks good enough to entice all those women to have slept with him

1

It’d be the most annoying thing in the world to teach u shit but yeah it’s fine. Lowkey my bf had basically no relationship experience and I had to train him, but he was good at sex and no way in hell I’m giving that up. He’s so hot I love him

1

no. TO ME it reads off as “i don’t view women as equal human beings” like you’re just using them and tossing them to the side and TO ME it looks like low respect toward self.

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