yeah i don’t think this is a you problem, i think it shows that they are definitely a bad match for you

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She’s weird wtf

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That’s just a weird thing to say. You did the right thing

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Holy hell. No… you’re good. As a girlie she’s wildly out of her mind. You respected her space. You were polite with the rejection. And she wanted you to beg for her attention. She’s toxic. The fact that this has happened more than once with you is pathetic. Sometimes, girls are the problem. The only thing I can even remotely think is maybe next time say “that’s a shame, I thought there was something, but I respect your choice.” Or something along those lines. Seriously tho you’re good.

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Yeah no your being respectful

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some women still have work to do in dismantling their own sexism, from what we know in this screenshot u did nothing wrong.

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You didn’t do anything wrong. She’s weird asf for this

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Sounds like you did the right thing and she’s just a weird judgmental person.

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I’m sorry, respecting boundaries is now bad??? This is news to me

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You gave a respectful send off idk why she felt the need to keep pushing 😭

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This girl is a walking red flag, thank god she showed you her true colors before. You’re not in the wrong, and she’s not someone I would associate myself with. If she keeps this attitude she’ll either end up single or in a bad situation.

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Its giving externalizing the internalized misogyny on her part lol. U dont want her

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Yeah don’t listen to her, she kind of sounds weird and yucky. You absolutely did the right thing in being respectful and polite. Being pushy and chasing after a rejection are not favorable actions at all really.

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What😭 ur definitely not in the wrong, im sure she would have complained and called you grapey if you had tried to touch her—u dodged a bullet

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As a girl, it seems like she’s so used to men being disrespectful and taking what they want that she can’t fathom a respectful one

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You’re doing great, I promise someone is going to cherish your respectful ass

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You were respectful, she was weird, you’re not in the wrong. Keep being a respectful and kind person ❤️

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As a woman, this is so unfair to you lol. She rejected you and you respected her answer. What were you supposed to do, argue with her about whether she’s attracted to you? And not assuming you can touch her on a first date isn’t 'feminine/gay,’ either.

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I wish a man was that respectful to me😭😭

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uhmmmm i think shes the problem

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Did she want you to push her boundaries and not take no for an answer?? Is being respectful gay now? 😭

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It’s giving roles reversed of women saying no means no, but after they reject a guy they wonder why he doesn’t try to be persistent lol pretty pathetic either way

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Not at allll. Seems like the type of girl who just causes problems to get attention.

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nah king you're doing what you're supposed to be doing

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based on that last message her whole worldview is cooked and you dodged a bullet

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Wtf run bro, this is not ok.

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You seem super nice she’s a weirdo

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no you are not in the wrong that is so bizarre😭 what does she want you to do beg for a second chance??

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as a girl you’re not in the wrong at all that’s super weird of her to say. she should have just said the connection wasn’t there instead of making a problem out of you being respectful. in general girls appreciate you not skiing them uncomfortable and not being super touchy or anything on a first date

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I saw this on Twitter like days ago lmao this isn’t you

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Jeez…. And I thought the worst match I got was when the girl was asking about the other guy in the pic and said “he’s more handsome than you and you’re more uglier”

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Honestly no… like TF?! If she doesn’t want to be with me I ain’t gonna beg!! I only beg for the Lord’s forgiveness and mercy not for some hoe’s attention! TF?!

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Twitter repost

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What app is this

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Holy shit you dodged a bullet, gg my dude, keep being you and keep being respectful my good sir 🫡 (need more men to normalize this kind of behavior in a world like this… not everything’s gotta be sexual smh..)

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Girl got egoed so hard she couldn’t cope😭 how fragile

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if she was making moves and you weren’t reciprocating (standing/sitting right up against you, stuff like that) then yeah maybe she didn’t feel chemistry because she didn’t feel wanted. but other than that, it’s always fine to wait until it feels right to make moves and just focus on getting to know one another

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no you’re completely in the right. i love you for this. there are men who are complete assholes. keep being respectful and you’ll find an amazing woman who will care for your nurturing personality.

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Actually this sort of reads as someone who didn’t necessarily not like you, she was interested enough to show up, but she wanted to feel more overt interest from you, more desire, more pursuit. I do think it borders and is probably a tad bit narcissistic and attention seeking though…

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you’re not wrong but it’s lowkey weird that you were like “alright!” imo

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