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If my sex drive is low for my bf should i just step away i haven’t been sexually feeling him for about 3 months
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Anonymous 2d

It can also be a stress thing, as well as certain medications/birth control, stop drinking, go to the gym and eat cleaner

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Anonymous 2d

Has your sex drive ever been like this before or is this new

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Anonymous 2d

Are you on birth control. My libido definitely goes down when I’m on them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2d

Every time im in a relationship and i start to lose interest i get the icks and i get turned off easily by how dudes act meanwhile this my second relationship i think i just didn’t find my person yet but idk

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2d

Maybe you just haven't found the person yet, it could just be the beginning phase wearing off and then you lose interest

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

I mean if you really like the guy and can see a future I wouldn’t dip cause your sex drive is low. That’d be prioritizing the wrong things, just have open communication and try to work through it together

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

Also reduce anything that promotes instant gratification/dopamine surges. If you’re always trying to find that new thing just to surge your dopamine that can also lead you into feeling bored with your partner cause that “new thing” is boring now

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2d

In monkey terms, be mentally and physically healthier 😶👍

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

If you get the ick from him just being himself, then don’t even tell him what bothered you and start withholding sex, then save him time and leave him. He deserves better.

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