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What do women actually have to do to get in a relationship? Men have to put in loads of effort approaching and getting rejected because 95% of women think you’re ugly, but what do you do? Just wait for someone to come along and judge if he’s good enough?
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Anonymous 3d

I met a guy, realized I had chemistry with him, and asked him out. Most of the girls I know will either ask guys out if they are interested, or otherwise plan to make it obvious, for example scheming to get time alone with said guy, flirting, etc. also there is a learning about and vetting a guy to make sure he is not a Creep that a good few of us do

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Anonymous 3d

Many of us have to do the same things men do to find partners

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Anonymous 3d

I approached my now husband first and went to the psych ward early on to fix my mental health for us so

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Anonymous 2d

Idk I haven’t done anything and I’ve been single for years, someone maybe approaches me once a year and it’s never anyone I’d be interested in at all

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Anonymous 18h

As a guy you have to be good looking to get into a relationship with a woman you want. Unfortunately most guys are not good looking.

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Anonymous 3d

I don’t mean this in a negative way btw, because it might sound like it and I know a lot of you will take it that way. I’m genuinely curious

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

If you grew up in female friend groups you’d understand how much of a struggle some girls/women have with getting guys interested in them lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

You have to approach?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3d

Love him to death but he never had to do much comparatively 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

No fr my girl group used to host entire meetings to plan scheme and plot lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 3d

So basically I’m uglier than I thought

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Not necessarily. I live in a super progressive area. Some areas have different common attitudes about dating. There are definitely still a lot of girls who don’t approach. And not that it’s a comfort but, it might not be your looks! There could be other things that would keep a girl from forming interest (not saying their def is, but there are a lot of different factors that go into deciding if a guy is of interest or not)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Yes we do

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