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Being asexual in a world so sex focused is so hard sometimes. Like everything gets sexualized like its normal. And people tell me I have issues because im not into that. Like I'll ask my friend dating advice and it'll just be sexualizing myself 😭
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Anonymous 9w

Hello, are you garlic bread lover like me👀?

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Anonymous 9w

Are you garlic bread or cake?

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Anonymous 9w

move to mars? 😭

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Anonymous 9w

So why don’t you just have friends? If you’re not interested in having a bf or gf

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Anonymous 9w

Ngl being entirely uninterested in anything related to sex is weird! You might want to see a doctor and have your hormone levels checked.

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Anonymous 9w

Being asexual is super easy. Trust me

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I guess thats my only option 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

😢

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Maybe I'll find an alien who doesnt wanna fuck

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

😂

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

you’ll find someone!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Gaelic bread

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

Maybe 🤭🤭

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

And another person denying asexuality is real 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Well because mammals BIOLOGICALLY seek reproduction. Idk if you ignore it. I’m just saying watch them damn hormones before you end up 6 fr under because thinking your illness was quirky.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Idc*

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Asexuality means feeling sexual attraction. Maybe learn what something is before jumping to conclusions

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Anonymous 9w

I do like garlic bread

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

I literally feel disgusted by it. I dont wanna be naked in front of anyone and I dont wanna be touched like that. It doesnt seem fun and I know I won't enjoy it. Why does not having sex matter? So many people are asexual and don't die. Its not a disease

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Asexuality means NOT* feeling sexual attractive. Maybe google or read what you are saying before you get all sassy about it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I never said you would die. I’m saying it could be a hormonal imbalance

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

You’re the one who started getting sassy first by calling asexuals weird, dismissing asexuality as a hormone issue and refusing to admit it can exist outside of that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

My hormones are fine. Ive been to doctors and its all fine. If anything, the thing that might cause an imbalance is me not taking care of myself enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

There’s interest in romantic connection just not sexual connection

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

I am. I want to date. I just dont want sex. Its that simple. I want to get married and live life with someone I love. Relationships arent just sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

You just described a long term roommate 😂😅

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 9w

Why does it bother you?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

So what’s the difference between that and a roommate if you’re not kissing or doing anything? Are you allowed to hold their hand? 😂

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Im fine with kissing. Kissing and cuddling and all that shit is fine. Its the actual sex part that I dont like. Seriously why does it matter

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

this is not me denying asexuality, but i do feel concerned that some asexuals actually have a physical (hormonal) or emotional issue such as an extreme fear of intimacy. if you don’t want to explore that as an option it’s your choice but it will ultimately make your life more difficult, like you’re experiencing

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

(i once thought i could be asexual but it was actually really bad anxiety and fear of intimacy, i do enjoy sex)

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 9w

Ive done things with others and myself and its just not enjoyable. At all. I dont feel good and its just not fun or something I look forward to. Its literally nothing important. Sex isn't the reason for living

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

It literally is. You don’t exist without sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

Well good thing i dont want kids

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

are you saying that the only difference between a friend and a romantic partner is that you fuck them😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

Seriously. Like you dont want to marry and kiss your friends. Just cause I dont wanna fuck doesnt mean I dont want to date

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

Nobody wants to date me because I don't wanna have sex

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Then fuck them. Sex isn’t everything

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

😭😭 bro I just wanna date someone but there literally arent any ace people around me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

There are millions of people out there. As long as you’re honest, you’ll find someone

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Anonymous replying to -> #9 9w

i mean i don’t think we should ignore that it’s like a billion times harder for asexual people to find someone than it is for everyone else considering only 1% of the country is asexual and that’s not even already filtered for age range, personality, life goals, and location

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

I think there’s definitely more asexual people they just don’t realize it or think it’s normal. My moms in denial, she thinks everyone is faking wanting sex

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 9w

But you don’t need sex to live happily

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Anonymous replying to -> #8 9w

This. Sure there's millions of people but the majority want sex and arent willing to go without it. It isn't that easy as being truthful about my asexuality. Look at these comments. People are saying its basically just a friendship. This is why its hard

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