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I am talking to this girl and she keeps taking an hour + to respond, but her responses aren’t dry or anything like that. Like when she talks she seems interested, but I don’t know if I should be taking a hint from the response times and stop bothering her
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Anonymous 2w

I used to think the “busy” thing was just an excuse but I recently have been talking to like no guys bc I’m so busy with school and studying. So she honestly could be super busy

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Anonymous 2w

Here's an actual response from a woman. Keep talking to her. She takes an hour place to respond, but is actually interested in what you have to say, then she's probably just busy or simply not trying to stay on the phone waiting for a message. You should be concerned when she takes half the day to respond and her response is short/uninteresting. I have hope for you!

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Anonymous 2w

1) her life could be busy and she might not be seeing the texts immediately. also not everyone responds immediately 2) she could be taking that time to think of a well thought oht response

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Anonymous 2w

It dont matter if the advice is from a woman or a man if both of them have good input 😭😭😭

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Anonymous 2w

I know u probably want her bad but if she wants u, unless u do sum super stupid or sum she dont like, its gna work out

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Hopefully 😅

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

If she into u, the reply gna come. Just try to do ur thing and respond when she does. If she aint into u then its probably not gna happen 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Thanks for the advice bro ur a real one

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

🫡 thanks for the advice

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Ok but "ask women" would imply that a woman's response is being sought after? However no one is saying a man responding is necessary wrong. Sorry if that hurt you in some way?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Nah i just thought u were tryna invalidate my advice in some way but i see u weren’t trying to and u got a valid point

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

Im sorry it came off that way, it sometimes just bothers me because sometimes the response coming from other guys in this community can be completely incorrect to the womens experience thus making us look bad 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Two people having a misunderstanding in the comment section and then explaining their points like adults and not just hurling insults?? Is this a dream???

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Ur good mb too for assuming u tryna get at me

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

^ this

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