Guys are visual. Girls are mental

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Women need much more build up in terms of arousal. Men can get horny spontaneously and be ready to go, so porn works wonders. Women usually have more responsive desire and it takes a certain amount of time for everything to “warm up”. Men often don’t understand why women need so much foreplay, it’s the same reason. Some women (not all) also need some level of emotional connection and learning about/relating to the characters also really helps.

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More ethical than porn.

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Cuz you’re too afraid to say porn

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Women are often more imaginative while men are more often visual creatures. Watching two strangers fuck does nothing for me, reading something where I can mentally put myself in the scenario and imagine it is a lot more appealing.

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