Anonymous littlepenis2.9 16w

Motherfuckers wanna go to a fast food restaurant, get food, sit in the car, eat it, and talk. It’s low effort and complete bullshit.

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Anonymous OP 16w

That sounds dumb

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 16w

It is. I hate the shit

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Anonymous OP 16w

I hate fast food. Like if I’m going to spend time with a girl with what I assume is going to be a first date I’d want it to be somewhere nice with chill vibes so we can converse and enjoy delicious food

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Anonymous littlepenis2.9 16w

I don’t mind fast food, but I don’t think that’s a first date activity. It’s not about the money for me, but I think fast food is just low effort and doesn’t show that you actually really like the person/care about getting to know them.

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Anonymous OP 16w

I understand that completely

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Anonymous #2 16w

I like museum, art, gallery, aquarium, zoo, etc. I get some of those can be a little more expensive so it doesn’t have to be those but I feel like there’s so many other more fun and better options to take somebody on the first date other than going to get fast food or sitting in a movie theatre and not being able to talk for two hours

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Anonymous OP 16w

You want a guy to take you to fogo de chao first date or what???

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Anonymous #4 16w

I didn’t say anything remotely close to that did I?

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Anonymous OP 16w

What’s your first date suggestion then

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Anonymous #4 16w

Look below.

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Anonymous #3 16w

Be glad you haven’t lmao

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Anonymous #5 16w

That’s what I’m saying. She just yapping to yap

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Anonymous #4 16w

I’m not yapping to yap. You don’t know me nor have you seen the conversations I have with people so quite frankly I don’t know why you’re giving any input. Move along.

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Anonymous #5 16w

I have no issues communicating what I do and do not like if somebody makes a suggestion for a date I’m not into. It’s simply frustrating to see low effort from people and I’m venting about it which I should be allowed to do without people assuming I don’t communicate well.

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Anonymous OP 16w

You’re complaining about “low effort” while giving even less effort. You are the reason dating apps are exhausting.

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Anonymous #5 16w

From this post, how did you gather that I’m giving low effort? I ask guys out on a dating apps which is more than a lot of women are willing/comfortable doing. When I ask them I have a plan or several options/suggestions that aren’t some low effort bullshit like eating fast food restaurant in a car. But sure keep projecting.

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Anonymous #7 16w

A walk, going to a restaurant, a museum, art gallery, etc. I’m in a city with multiple botanical gardens, a zoo, and an aquarium too. There a plenty of options and the majority of them are very inexpensive. Why are we sitting in a car and eating fast food or going to a movie where we can’t even talk and get to know each other?

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How did you gather I’m a gold digger because I don’t wanna eat fast food on a date? I pay for my own meals when I go on dates lmao

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Anonymous OP 16w

Interesting, I’ll suggest those next time. Thanks for the ideas

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Anonymous #7 16w

No problem!! :)

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Anonymous #10 16w

Everything you mention could easily be gone by yourself and maybe meet a guy there instead of an app

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Anonymous #10 16w

If you meet a guy at the aquarium at least you know he likes to go to the aquarium instead of hoping some guy you swiped on tinder takes you there

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Gold digging is when you don't want Taco Bell in the passenger seat as a first date

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Anonymous #10 16w

I'm all for trying to meet people organically, but u can't act like OP is unreasonable for trying to date people on dating apps 😭

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