Ask Women on Yik Yak | Does anyone ever feel like they disappointed their friends at a hangout like didn’t talk enough or weren’t fun enough .. I overthink sm

Does anyone ever feel like they disappointed their friends at a hangout like didn’t talk enough or weren’t fun enough .. I overthink sm

Anonymous 1w

All the time 😭 especially on days when I’m socializing after work I feel like I’m not energetic enough

Anonymous 1w

I always worry that i was too weird and now they hate me

Anonymous 1w

As someone whose best friend moved across the country and I get to see her like once a year…if that, yes. I do feel, every single time, like we did nothing that was actually going to fill all the time we spent apart from

Anonymous 1w

I have the opposite issue where I feel like they think i was overbearing and too excited Which actually does happen to me, i get called “controlling” “annoying” and “weird” behind my back by people i thought were friends a lot All i do is try to match their energy but I’ve had unmedicated adhd AND autism AND ocd my whole life so it’s kind of hard to be normal??? But I’m trying to be the best friend i can be :( I’m never rude or mean idk …

Anonymous

#1 1w

Yea…like I wonder if it’s in my head or they do think I wasn’t being fun enough 😭😭 today was our first time actually hanging out but I was so tired I wasn’t as social as I usually am

Anonymous

#3 1w

Oh I’ve had this happen to me too,,that’s why I feel like I subconsciously talk less with friends bc I’m scared of being annoying or talking too much. There’s no winning 😩

Anonymous

#2 1w

Bro da but tbh I just need to find other people that think like this bc then we’ll both be on the same page

Anonymous

#4 1w

I get this feeling too!!! Anytime I see long distance friends it feels like I’m trying to live up to expectations of th best hangout ever since it’s once a year

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