Ask Women on Yik Yak | am i the only one that can’t think of someone sexually when i develop feelings for someone?? like not dating but crushing hard. it doesn’t sound normal

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Ask Women 9w

am i the only one that can’t think of someone sexually when i develop feelings for someone?? like not dating but crushing hard. it doesn’t sound normal

Anonymous 9w

You may be on the asexual spectrum. It could also be something caused by fear of something turning sexual when you don’t want it to

Anonymous 9w

Could jr be that you’re putting them on a pedestal? I felt the same was about my first gf. I didn’t want to make her uncomfortable so I just kind of repressed like, everything

Anonymous 9w

That’s a problem

Anonymous 9w

Well how old r u? R u a virgin? If it’s one of those then you might just not be ready which is fine, everyone is on their own timeline. I lost my virginity at 16 and I was not ready. Maybe get comfortable with touching urself before even thinking ab doing it with someone else

Anonymous

#1 9w

i definitely don’t think i’m asexual but idk why it’s just hard to picture them in a sexual way. this is whenever i have like real real feelings for anyone, maybe bc im craving something pure and real? like im genuinely scared to just be used for sex