Ask Women on Yik Yak | am i the only one that can’t think of someone sexually when i develop feelings for someone?? like not dating but crushing hard. it doesn’t sound normal

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Ask Women 19h

am i the only one that can’t think of someone sexually when i develop feelings for someone?? like not dating but crushing hard. it doesn’t sound normal

Anonymous 19h

You may be on the asexual spectrum. It could also be something caused by fear of something turning sexual when you don’t want it to

Anonymous 13h

Could jr be that you’re putting them on a pedestal? I felt the same was about my first gf. I didn’t want to make her uncomfortable so I just kind of repressed like, everything

Anonymous 18h

No I’m the same way usually it’s an effort from me not to sexualize them

Anonymous

#1 19h

i definitely don’t think i’m asexual but idk why it’s just hard to picture them in a sexual way. this is whenever i have like real real feelings for anyone, maybe bc im craving something pure and real? like im genuinely scared to just be used for sex