okay so the thing abt sapphic social circles is that the rules are different than among straight ppl. it is EXTREMELY common among women who date other women to stay friends with their exes, their exes’ friends, their exes’s exes, etc etc. definitely talk to ur gf and express how it makes u feel, but be careful to not be judgmental.

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I’m friends with my ex gf. Don’t go by the situation on paper, go by their specific vibes, bc we are more capable of staying friends than straight people. Often imo because we’re good friends before dating as well. Play it by ear, and if you’re truly uncomfortable try and explain that to your girl and get her honest estimation of their relationship

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If I was in your place I wouldn’t like that everyone has their boundaries 🤷🏽‍♀️ if it bothers you I would tell her

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Fuck no that’s weird and you’re not bugging . If it was u she wouldn’t like it

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