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Does anyone else genuinely hate the “I have a boyfriend” lingo where you can never have a genuine convo with a woman due to the egotistical obsession for them to mention that they’re in a relationship? Like I don’t care about your love life.
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Anonymous 5w

He is right about that stuff tho. Like assuming makes an ass out of u and me. It’s not that serious tho 😅

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Anonymous 5w

Who is doing that

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Anonymous 5w

i think you’re prolly overreacting. but it’s normal for a woman you’ve just met to bring up the fact she is in a relationship as she is not going to know your intentions upon first meeting.

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Anonymous 5w

It would be one thing if it was about me “hitting on them” but you genuinely CANNOT have a convo with women in the big 2025 where they consistently want to mention that they’re in a relationship It’s so disgusting in many ways that it just ruins any chance of relatability to women you can possibly have Imagine every time you talk to a dude and he says “yeah I fucked a girl last night” in a suggestive way Ok? I don’t care. I’m not trying to have sex with you, I want to talk to you. That’s it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Factss

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

No, I’m not. And no, it’s not normal. Having a regular conversation doesn’t mean that you have to bring up your relationship, it means you’re too egotistical to hold a regular convo (in a day to day setting 😂) without being that way to the point you NEED to think someone is hitting on you It’s gross and I hope you get cheated on so you stop acting so high and mighty

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w
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Anonymous replying to -> #4 5w

Like imagine the people go she DIDNT tell she was in a relationship with? Now because she tells anyone who isn’t hitting on her that she is in a relationship, imagine the people who she doesn’t tell? Is she hoping they also hit on her? The behavior is so toxic and unnecessary it’s gross.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

ok i was right there is something wrong with you. it is not crazy for a woman to bring up the fact that she has a boyfriend once with a man she had just met. she is trying to be respectful to her bf in case the man had the thought to hit on her. i agree it becomes annoying if a woman only talks about her bf or is coming across obsessive, but mentioning once or twice is nothing to get your panties in a twist over. is there something else going on with you that is warranting your abnormal behavior

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

Yeah you need to seek therapy dude

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

telling someone that you hope they get cheated on is really strange behavior, i don’t know if you’re like struggling mentally with something or have a history with emotional problems but maybe you should just not interact with people at all if you’re going to have such an emotional reaction to hearing that a woman has a bf.

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

“Ok I was right there is something wrong with you” I will always be against anything you stand for. If there is something you believe? I will be against it.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

You’re out here wishing people get cheated on, her statement’s not wrong

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 5w

I think OP meant girls who bring it up over and over. And please dont pretend like that doesnt happen. “You know me and my boyfriend” “we” bitch no one gives a fuck shut up about your boyfriend

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