
Be picky. Go for men that are kind, not love bomby (kind men will be sweet to those around them and animals.) Love bomb men will focus on trying to get your attention by lavishing attention on you (and if they can afford it, gifts). Pay attention to who his friends are. Does he have no connection with women other than you? 🚩 Does he have a girl friend that is uncomfortably close? 🚩Look up signs of gaslighting.