Ask Women on Yik Yak | I met a girl and took her on a date, we held hands, cuddled, andkissed once before she went back to her place, I’ve been spoiling her… she’s also diagnosed bipolar and borderline, hasn’t responded all day, and left a message I sent on opened Am I cooked?

Yik Yak

Download

Join communities on Yik Yak Download

Ask Women 16h

I met a girl and took her on a date, we held hands, cuddled, andkissed once before she went back to her place, I’ve been spoiling her… she’s also diagnosed bipolar and borderline, hasn’t responded all day, and left a message I sent on opened Am I cooked?

Anonymous 16h

Give her some time to think if u actually think it went well reach out again! Just don’t do it a million times and be creepy.

Anonymous

#1 16h

Yeah I texted her when I woke up just asking how she is, sent another recently making a joke that she’s prob still asleep… gonna chill till she responds now

Anonymous

OP 16h

I have very anxious attachment tho so this is killing me

Anonymous

OP 16h

if you self-describe as having anxious attachment, a relationship with someone who has BPD is going to completely ruin your life.

Anonymous

#2 16h

It’s hard being in a relationship with somebody that has something like that BUT you can always try your best to navigate the situation and make both parties feel comfortable if he didn’t think he could help he would be putting effort into her

Anonymous

#2 15h

I’ve had this thought but I think she’s worth it

Anonymous

OP 12h

I'm sure you do, but you also exist