how do you deal with your partner not understanding the weight of their actions & the effect it has on you? He’s done a few things to break my trust but doesn’t seem to comprehend the lasting effects it has on me. I’m trying my best to navigate but 1/2
it feels like I’m talking to a wall sometimes. Idk if it’s better to just leave & make peace with the fact that he’ll never understand.
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Anonymous3w
Trust me he knows what he’s doing men aren’t as dumb as we think
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Anonymous3w
Drop him, plenty of men are not lobotomized. At best he’s stupid, at worst it’s intentional.
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AnonymousOP3w
Usually people like that understand, but they don’t care. They pretend not yo understand because they think they can get away with more if they play dumb
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Anonymous#13w
Yup, weaponized incompetence. I hate to be that person who always spawns in the comments of posts like these but I don’t think he’s going to change if he’s acting like that