Ask Women on Yik Yak | Hey, I’m freshly single after getting out of a 4 year relationship with a guy (I’m a bisexual dude who swings both ways). Does anyone have any good advice/ recommendations for putting myself back out there?

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Ask Women 14h

Hey, I’m freshly single after getting out of a 4 year relationship with a guy (I’m a bisexual dude who swings both ways). Does anyone have any good advice/ recommendations for putting myself back out there?

Anonymous 12h

try an app or just going out and approaching people and starting conversations! i’ve found it’s actually easier after having a long relationship because you have experience being really comfortable with another person in really intimate ways. it can make the whole process with someone easier sometimes

Anonymous 13h

Should you process the breakup first? If it’s fresh like that at least.

Anonymous

#1 13h

That’s the plan! Heal first, become comfortable with myself again, regain confidence, then put myself back out there. I know how to do the first parts for myself, I just don’t know how to put myself out to date

Anonymous

#2 9h

Thanks! My friends and I have already decided that once I feel ready and comfortable that we’re going to be going to some clubs and bars to try and meet some people!!