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For other women, when you have sex is it supposed to feel like something? Like it honestly just feels like something going into me. It doesnt hurt or feel good tbh and im confused if somethings not being done right or something
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Anonymous 9w

oof yeah that shit feels amazing for me personally. especially when there’s an emotional connection and good chemistry/ attraction. some women just mm don’t have the same amount of sensation up there tho. have you tried clitoral stimulation/ head?

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Anonymous 9w

I’m asexual but not totally, and I also haven’t enjoyed sex so far. I would describe it the same way you did. However, I was not attracted to the partner I was having sex with (even though I liked him and wanted to be), so it’s inconclusive… maybe I would feel different when in a state of intense arousal, or maybe my body just doesn’t really feel much during sex

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Anonymous 9w

it should feel good, i would say maybe you’re doing it with the wrong person? do you ever do it yourself?

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Anonymous 9w

You’re probably asexual. Do you feel sexual attraction?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

I do and its the same. Its just nothing. Ive watched videos and shit to try fo feel something and I just dont.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

i’m sorry, it’s pretty great when it all works right. i know some people are only aroused when they are romantically involved, or some people aren’t at all 🤷‍♂️

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Anonymous replying to -> hellraiser 9w

Ive tried everything. It just feels like a chore atp

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I mean I find people hot and shit. And I want to like sex. I just dont. 😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

let me rephrase (a little graphic?. Do you get horny? Do you ever get like I need to feel their body against mine, or I want to feel them between my legs? And do you get wet from thinking about it? If not, you’re probably on asexual spectrum.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Ya.. maybe im asexual. 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

not a bad thing at all! Some ppl might even love it and at least you’re not sexually repulsed. I’ve seen long term relationships on the rocks bc one is disgusted by sex and the other craves it.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

Ya my last bf left me cause I just wasnt enjoying it and he wanted sex every night

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

This! Because i felt the same way until I got with someone i was in love with

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

keep in mind, it’s a spectrum. you don’t have to be so far to the point where you’re aromantic, just be you!

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