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Does anyone feel themselves slowly losing empathy towards men? I hate it but I just can’t fathom that they’re not evil deep down.
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Anonymous 2w

Not all men, but specifically shitty men yes. Existing in this space particularly makes me lose empathy, because there are so many disgraceful men. Gotta ground myself by hanging out with some normal guys every once in a while

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Anonymous 2w

I don’t think that all men are bad, but I think that a very worrying amount are. And it’s not obvious sometimes and is engrained so deep that they often don’t see the problem in each other Esp in the way to how they see women. I grew up a daddy’s girl for lack of better words idk I hate that term, but I’ve recently been seeing how much my dad and brother actually suck and it’s been sad. Ones who I thought were the good ones

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Anonymous 2w

No but I do understand why. I have a lot of male friends and my male family members are fantastic. The men outside of those circles however I am wary of. I absolutely still have empathy for them, I have empathy for everyone.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Where do you even find the normal guys though? They’re all wolves in sheep’s clothing

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Just social media in general seems to harbor the worst types of men. Idk if you follow the streamer awards drama but there’s a bunch of misogynistic shit happening and tons of people are excusing it. Saying a threat to assault someone is “just New York slang” and even denying SA allegations bc it’s their favorite streamer who was accused. Shit pmo

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Well like in reality the majority of guys are normal. I’m chill with guys in my school, I have some long time male friends, and also I’ve met some good guys on dating apps surprisingly. Not all men are evil irl even if it may seem that way on the internet

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Currently missing my man, and he’s definitely not evil he’s just a baby

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

Yeah, I would definitely agree with that 😬 Social media can very much emphasize the worst in each genders, further creating division.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

It’s always subtly though.. I feel like they’d all sleep with you if they had the chance and that’s why I could never trust them.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Maybe seek out gay male friends. Although sadly it seems a lot of gay men are misogynistic

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

From my experience they have been. All men seem to care about it sec regardless:,)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

That’s not my experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 2w

I wish I could relate

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Youre not wrong,all men care about (and have cared about in all of history) is sex. Either be mad and stay single forever or accept reality

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

yeah i haven’t had make friends in a long time because all of them eventually confessed feelings for me. some of them would try to cheat on their girlfriends with me. every man i’ve met has said something sexist, racist, homophobic, etc if i spoke to him long enough. i would like to think there’s good men, but im definitely not encountering them

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Anonymous 2w

Lol who hurt you? Calm yourself you sound dumb af

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Anonymous replying to -> strawberry_hair 2w

I wish I could relate to that. It all started with my male family members. Full of abusers, enablers, addicts and pedos

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