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any advice? it doesn’t help that this is his first day there :( i feel like an immature child
3 upvotes, 6 comments. Yik Yak image post by Anonymous in Ask Women. "any advice? it doesn’t help that this is his first day there :( i feel like an immature child"
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Anonymous 14w

just keep yourself busy, do stuff that makes you happy. or something productive like cleaning. youre not selfish or clingy

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Anonymous 14w

i feel this so hard, especially when you have nothing to do. personally i think it would be sweet if he texted you at some point before you go to bed, esp if he kinda knew you would feel this way, just to say hi. otherwise try to stay busy. tomorrow imo he should call you even if it’s short, just because it shows that he obviously is taking the opportunity to enjoy the trip, but is still checking in with you and giving you a semblance of that routine because the two of you genuinely enjoy talkin

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

to each other. idk all relationships have different dynamics but yours kind of sounds like mine. one time my bf was partying out of state and didn’t call me for 48 and… I wasn’t necessarily worried, just.. sad. like you can’t take 5 mins to call me? im more than happy to hear ab all of his adventures and how excited he is ab the trip but like just… let me know that i cross ur mind once and awhile

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

48 hrs

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 14w

this was really sweet :) i know my boyfriend would never think im annoying or regret dating me but i’ve been beating myself up for feeling like this. he’s been texting me occasionally here and there but we haven’t had a full conversation today, or at least not yet. he even told me he got me something which shows he’s been thinking of me. just knowing he’s in a different state makes me feel so lonely and sad. i feel pathetic for feeling like this at my grown age.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14w

NOPE don’t I totally get you and the gift is SO SWEET I would cry. he’s def thinking about you and wants to share his experience with you and bring something back

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