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what are unspoken first date dos and don’ts that makes a guy super attractive? I have my first date with a girl tonight
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Anonymous 5d

Holding the door open, walking her to her car, sending her a message after it’s over (“I had a great time tonight, I’d love to see you again”). You don’t have to pay the bill to be courteous, there are plenty of other ways of being polite. ASK QUESTIONS. So many men have never asked me a single thing about myself during a date.

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Anonymous 5d

Definitely bring flowers! It shows you’re a gentlemen

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Anonymous 5d

^ agree but DO PAY THE BILL

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

I really don’t think it’s that hard to mess up on a date if you just keep yourself collected and be polite. Act natural!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

A little compliment will never kill you “wow, you look really nice”, and just don’t let your nerves get in the way of your personality!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

wow thank you!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

i did ask first!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Bring her flowers! Walk up to her door if you’re getting her from her house, and back to her car/house when the date ends depending on the situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Wouldn’t flowers be too suggestive on a first date?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Even if she suggests, I wouldn’t want to hookup on the first date. Maybe other guys would but I need at least three real dates before I feel comfortable with anything like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

No flowers are always nice, being romantic and asking for hookups are different. Especially if you know you don’t want to until you know her better.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

I think flowers have zero correlation in regards to insinuating a hookup

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5d

Good advice

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Who sees flowers and think oh this means we have to have sex 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 5d

Yeah like what

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

I hope it went well!!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3d

thank you! I don’t think we saw any sparks, but it was good for us to meet up! I took everyone’s advice and it was fun

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