I’m a 25 yo grad student living in a college town. Do I shoot my shot with girls at coffee shops and whatnot even though they might be much younger or should I lean into apps instead? Ideally wanna date someone 23+. Thanks!
Both but look for women who look more mature when you go in person
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Anonymous3w
Both
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Anonymous#23w
Yeah it’s just tough cause it’s hard to tell sometimes yk? Fashion is pretty similar and whatnot. Besides avoiding people who are obviously in Greek life idrk what to avoid. Got any tips on that front?
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AnonymousOP3w
Don’t go after people who look like teenagers? Like face wise
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Anonymous#33w
Well yeah obviously not. I’m saying 21 year olds often look pretty similar to 23/25 year olds and it’s hard to tell the difference sometimes
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AnonymousOP3w
And I just don’t wanna date someone much more than a year or two younger than me, ideally I’d like to date someone my own age
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AnonymousOP3w
Then you should probably try online dating or find a spot with an older age demographic
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Anonymous#33w
Any tips on what those spots might be?
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AnonymousOP3w
College bars on the weekdays might have more people your age, honestly I’m not really sure bc I’m undergrad so idk where the grad students congregate