It is if you’ve established that boundary but I wouldn’t establish it. I don’t care about it tho

37

If it starts to cause issues with our sex life, then yes. If we have different libidos and this helps you balance it out, I honestly don’t care

18

depends on the couples boundaries. my bf doesn’t watch it but personally i wouldn’t care

17

No. We both watch it

7

Sort of. I’d feel disrespected and wouldn’t date someone that watches porn.

6

Depends on your relationship. My bf and I’s happy middle is that it’s videos of us

5

Everyone defines cheating for themselves. Partners set boundaries together

5

I don’t think it’s a matter of whether or not it’s cheating. Like, is finding a different person attractive and having a crush on them, loving them but not expressing it directly, cheating? Is masturbating to lewd images of others cheating? Can be no, but if your partner doesn’t like it, you can either break-up or compromise.

5

I think it is, but that’s just me.

4

depends on individual boundaries. my gfs libido is higher than mine and idrc what she does on her own time. I don’t watch porn but I read smut and she doesn’t gaf abt that either.

4

No. I don’t think so.

3

Yes

1

no

1

Yes

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