i can’t tell yall what is best for yall, but personally i’ve had a lot of meaningless sex and a lot of loving relationship sex, and i can say with certainty that i am very grateful my first time was with a bf who loved me. that isn’t to say that casual sex can’t be enjoyable and but i do think it is best to fulfill everything that sex can’t be for your first time. i have had some truly awful hookups with men that paid no care to my pleasure and comfortability and that is not what u want

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when you find out this answer tell me I’m still trying to figure it out myself 😭

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Guy here because I think my opinion may still be valuable to you. A lot of the time there’s a public perception with guys and just needing to lose it, but tbh, I think the best, most personally fulfilling method is to have a relationship. What I think you should ask is what you care about more, do you care about your reputation for other people; and just being able to tell yourself you’ve done it, or do you care about actually enjoying something that should be enjoyable to its fullest.

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GO FOR ITTT

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