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In a an interaction, what sets apart an avg attractiveness guy from other avg attractiveness guys?
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Anonymous 4w

Not just commenting on their attractiveness, noticing small things about them that other people may not notice, comment about their personality something you find positive/intriguing about them. And just be confident in yourself. Also be inquisitive. If she don’t want that she ain’t it

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Anonymous 4w

a good sense of humor tbh

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Anonymous 4w

Kindness

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Anonymous 4w

Anything interesting, compassion, intelligence, curiosity. But that’s my personal preference. Everyone’s different, and you’re also trying to attract the right person for you. I might not be the kind of person you’d like. If you put your authentic self on display, you’ll attract people who like your authentic self. It will save you time later.

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Anonymous 4w

Being different id say

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Anonymous 4w

Is kindness rlly that attractive?

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Anonymous 4w

confidence

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

How?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

I like that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Thank you🙂‍↕️

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Humor rlly is huge, isn‘t it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

yessssss!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I’d say most women out there ( not a women so correct me) aren’t just looking for an (attractive man) or someone’s who’s (hot) their looking for someone who they can picture themselves with in the long run.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Just because you’re attractive doesn’t mean you have the attributes to be a long time partner. But that’s just my opinion as a man

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

What separates a kind friend from a kind guy who‘s more than a friend?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

chemistry

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

What is chemistry?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Like I get the idea, but how do u know there is or isn‘t chemistry?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

like a tingly type of chemistry where you get butterflies when you lock eyes and touching them feels kind of electric

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

a lot of it depends on the person. i’ve talked to multiple girls on dating apps and been respectful, nice, asked them on dates and everything and get blocked or harassed 😶‍🌫️

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 4w

At least 1% of people are narcissists, so yeah, there’s people like that for everyone to run into. That will happen. Most people have empathy and want someone else who does too

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

I find it SUPER attractive. That and intelligence. Every time my bf is nice to a beetle or comes up with an idea I didn’t think of, he gets more attractive.

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 4w

This is very important in my opinion. appealing to potential dates could be a decent motivation to work on things you already value or like, but it’s counterproductive to curate yourself into a dating persona that isn’t true to you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Why?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

if you think you’re the shit and your confident girls will think the same

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

Lol. The self-image we project is that convincing?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

yes i promise

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

It just seems funny that it has that much effect lol

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

girls can tell an insecure guy it immediately gives them the ick

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Anonymous replying to -> #7 4w

😭💀

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