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Ask Women 11w
Met a girl randomly and talked with her for about an hour a couple weeks ago. Is sliding in her ig and asking her on a date too immediate or will I have to be slower with it / small talk? Please help
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Anonymous 11w

I have no idea what others will think, but personally, I wouldn’t mind being asked on a casual get to know you sort of date sooner rather than later (assuming the conversation previously gave enough info to tell if you’re at least minimally compatible)

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

And swooping in a couple weeks after yall met would be chill?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

Just don’t be weird about it and you’ll be okay

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 11w

If I were open to dating you, it wouldn’t hurt to suggest a date at that point (with no pressure). and if I didn’t actually feel the same way about you, I’d be grateful that you had been open about your intent, as opposed to trying to make small talk for months or push a friendship without admitting that dating was secretly the real hope. That can be awkward for both people.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Makes sense

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