
This has very little to do with your post, but many women consider it offensive to be referred to simply as “female” since it reduces us down to our sex and women are so much more than that. Its ok if you didnt know, everyone has to learn somehow, but I thought you should know regardless
I totally get this! I have like two really good girl friends but otherwise I've only ever been friends with guys. I also feel guys are a lot easier to understand in a way. Girls tend to twist what they are saying which I already struggle to get what people mean while guys just say what they mean to say.
I think your experience is valid but in my observation if everyone/everyone from a specific demographic you meet is an asshole it’s usually because of you or your environment. Sometimes it’s both. If you haven’t already, maybe you should explore beyond the familiar (environmental and personal) to find what you’re looking for.