Dude WTF?!?!!! Your reaction is beyond tame. I would be so much more confrontational. His behavior is completely unacceptable

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that’s an insane federal crime and you’re NOT in the wrong, feeling/acting irrationally, or a villain. file for fraud no matter what because if he takes too long to get you the money it will impact your credit and you don’t need that

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bro have issues with confrontationa is like “my roommates leave dishes in the sink and i hate it but i don’t say anything” this is a felony that has the potential to ruin your life. regardless of whether you confront him about it you need to file a police report. it’s YOUR responsibility to pay it back rn because it’s YOUR information. email doesn’t matter it’s literally tied to your identity. you need to be a lot angrier about this and you NEED to tell EVERYONE in your family.

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I already closed the cards and told the companies my dad opened them under my name and made sure they can’t be reopened just paid off. They’re all attached to his #, his email and his address just under my name and SSN. He did this w my mom too when I was a kid lol. I would feel mean/bad if I filed for ID theft. My half sisters would understand why I’m upset but my half brothers (his bio kids) would think I’m making a big deal. So far I’ve told no one about this besides him+CC companies

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why does he do this? dude needs some serious help. does he have some sort of gambling addiction? even then, no you were not overreacting there. he could have completely ruined your life by ruining your credit score. no matter what the reason for his actions, they are bad actions!! his behavior is that which is villainous

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Go to the police about this now

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I’ve been in a similar situation. Your life is a dessert not one else gets to enjoy. Just you. If you don’t set boundaries now, first it’s the toppings, then the flavor, by the time you really accept this isn’t want you wanted, it’s not at all what you crave. In fact might be something you hate. This isn’t your brothers or your father’s dessert. Don’t let them take this from you and make you feel it’s justified. Would you be okay with this happening to your mother or sisters?

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This is like something off of Reddit. Also, he’s already fucked your credit score, this isn’t some victimless crime.

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