Personally, I focus less on trying to end it, and more on making sure that my behavior towards them is appropriate, that I’m not making them uncomfortable, and that I’m not engaging in magical thinking or irrational assumptions about what they are like/what they are thinking

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However, it’s pretty common that limerence happens for someone that you couldn’t actually date for whatever reason. I don’t actually have any good tips for getting rid of that kind, because it’s what I have and I’ve never been able to end such a limerence before it ended on its own …

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Think about the things about them that give you the ick. Not all the time, but enough to have a more balanced perception of them. Works for me

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If it’s someone who is actually eligible to date you (where the only thing standing in the way is whether they like you that way or not), I recommend casually asking them out. Having an answer typically helps to dispel the power of the “will they, won’t they” push and pull.

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Is this someone you could realistically cut off/limit contact without it horribly affecting you both?

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Throw something at them and key their cars (in Minecraft)

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