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I feel like men believe im too “all in” with relationships move too fast when i just feel like im setting clear boundaries, expectations, and standards. Anyone relate? Like I don’t want to play around with “oh I can’t double text”
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Anonymous 4d

This used to happen a lot with me. It always felt like I was putting in wayyyyy more effort even though I thought it was the bare minimum. Finally found someone that puts just as much in as me and it’s amazing. Turns out a lot of people just don’t want to communicate or build a real relationship

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Anonymous 3d

Don’t worry about how they feel about it. This is your litmus test, you’re filtering out everyone who sees setting boundaries and expectations as too much while also setting boundaries and expectations.

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