no one’s saying men don’t suffer but it’s different and it shouldn’t be like pulling teeth to get people to admit that. they don’t even know what autism looks like in women and girls bc they never studied it to the same degree. to say that isn’t traumatizing, to completely ignore people’s experiences existing in the intersection of ableism and sexism is so harmful and ignorant
i totally get this and i’m not sure. it seems pretty obvious to me that gender, race, and socioeconomic status impacts your experience as a disabled person. but i think all we can do is educate and move on from the people who are committed to remaining ignorant. i’m glad this sub yak exists bc i honestly keep running into this issue in the ND subyak. it hasn’t felt like a safe space so i’m glad this place does ❤️
seriously! that’s 12 years of not being able to learn about yourself. thinking everything is normal and it’s just a personal failure can do so much damage for your confidence. i was so confused and hated myself until i finally understood why everything was so difficult for me at the big age of 26. it gave me so much empathy for myself which would’ve been life changing to have growing up