Autistic girl community on Yik Yak | If you’re friends with someone but they just use all your stuff, complain, and offer absolutely no help when you are struggling it’s not selfish to no longer be friends right?

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Autistic girl community 6d

If you’re friends with someone but they just use all your stuff, complain, and offer absolutely no help when you are struggling it’s not selfish to no longer be friends right?

Anonymous 6d

You were never real friends with them to begin with, so yes, drop them, and find someone that actually cares about you🩷

Anonymous 5d

They’re using you queen! As an autistic non binary bisexual woman people use me all the time so I can spot it when I see it now 😓

Anonymous 5d

Probably yeah. Will say- I have had periods of being this friend when the other person didn’t tell me I was being a drag. I mean we did play together and I would help when she asked, but I was really bad at guessing what to do when not told. So if they are autistic too, maybe make sure that you have made it clear you want help or for them to be nicer before totally dropping them. Not that it’s on you! Just it is possible that they like you but currently suck at being a friend

Anonymous 5d

Your friends are using you babe

Anonymous

#2 5d

I guess part of the problem is that I’m being very direct with what I’m struggling with and I was met with literal silence it no longer feels beneficial on my side to continue being friends if anything I feel more lonely when she’s around

Anonymous

OP 5d

Definitely. If that is the case, I think they are more unambiguously not trying to be a good friend.