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guys is it weird that i have (most likely) one sided beef with my roommate? we became “friends” and then decided to move in together but she lowkey treats me like shit, but worst of all she is so dirty and i as a result have to clean because she doesn’t-
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Anonymous 5w

if you’re not communicating your issues with her it’s not weird, it’s just kind of immature imo.

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Anonymous 5w

care. then around finals week she just left our place without cleaning much and i was just like whatever until i saw a roach run into my fucking room from the kitchen. it lowkey made me spiral before i took my last final the next day, which i feel as if i bombed as a result of all of the stress that situation gave me and inevitably dropped my gpa.

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Anonymous 5w

lowkey i thought i was gonna get support, but am i approaching this wrong? i don’t think my mindset is bad beyond not confronting her, but it feels like she’s taking advantage of the fact that i haven’t brought up anything. im also not the one to try and make someone else’s life miserable but it just makes me upset (hence my beef) that she is still getting the things she wants in life even when she treats me like shit and makes weird sneak disses about me- even tho i don’t do that to her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

we both care about doing well in school but she just neglected sharing the work to keep our place clean, and so i as someone who lowkey hates dirty stuff kinda had to balance doing that stuff on top of my school work and it seems that only i am really getting the short end of the stick even tho i haven’t been complaining

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

bro i need to see someone because i just keep on ranting about these things but i just feel disrespected and lonely 🫩

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

i understand that i should be communicating how i feel and bringing up ways to make living easier but i just feel like it’s so inconsiderate (as the mess and grime is very obvious) that it feels hard to approach if i make sense?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

and this isnt to say that the way you treat one person should indicate your success in life but as the person being treated wrong it makes you feel bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

It does, but gotta shoot a rant at her. It’s scary but it will pass. Idk if you are exaggerating but if not, I wouldn’t have been able to live like that. Expect a lot of drama though, with roommates it’s inevitable.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

the mess and grime is obvious to you, but have you ever had a conversation about each of your standards for cleanliness? maybe it’s not reaching her standards for mess and grime and so it’s not obvious at all to her.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5w

if she’s sneak dissing you that’s a whole separate thing to address, but i always err on the side of communicating grievances bc i’ve had people act like nothing was wrong and then drop me as a friend too many times. when people hold in all their resentments and just grow more and more distant without communicating and giving the other person a chance, no one wins

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