i don’t have a lot of sage advice rn but i know how fucking painful that is as a fat woman. i want to believe very much that if the attraction is there that it’s there, but i also know some people are more rigid in the physicality of it. in the end, ruminating kills us (literally sometimes), so i think a good step forward is to secure at least an answer about it. if i were you, i might take a selfie on a day im feeling good and find some casual context to send it in to send to him.