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It’s not in my head, other women really do outright hate me. They don’t even try to hide it through the glares, the exclusion, the whole “praising each other and deliberately skipping over me” bullshit. I’m so tired of it….
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Anonymous 2w

Wait what's wrong like what's making you post this??

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Anonymous 2w

I’m sorry babe :( I hope you feel welcomed in this community 🫶

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’ve dealt with stuff like this my whole life but having it be a regular thing at work was the final nail in the coffin for me. I’ve been an RN for the last 2 months and of course I’m the new person on my unit. Despite me being proficient in skills and carrying out tasks, the female staff DO NOT like me at all…..I can sniff it out through all the nice nastiness if they’re not being overtly mean…

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Oh no :( do you think you could do something to boost morale/ make them more comfortable around you? Anything that helps them get to know you more

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I’ve done everything that people tell me to. Talk more, make conversation, all the other bs. Guess what? That does absolutely nothing when people have decided they already hate you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

People are uncomfortable around things that are different than what they know. I'm sure they don't hate you, especially if you haven't given them any reason as you say. Be sweet and kind until they have no excuse not to like you, I promise it works.

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