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Does anyone else get along wayyy better with girls than guys? Most girls/women are at least cordial with me whereas guys/men refuse to acknowledge my existence, even when they literally have to 😭
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Anonymous 19h

I feel so safe around women! I used to have a lot of guy friends and slowly but surely, they all tried to kiss me/get in my pants. I don’t have guy friends now on purpose

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Anonymous 17h

I get along better with dudes more than girls. Yeah they probably just trying flirt but damn they at least tried to have a conversation with me instead of how every girl I try to text or be friends with all keeps me until I stop giving them the bit of dopamine of oh I’m popular to this person.

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Anonymous 18h

i find that no one makes eye contact with me or effort. but i prefer women

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Anonymous 6h

I’m the exact opposite. Women are so complicated I am terrible at making women friends

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Anonymous 14h

As a guy (not trying to intrude, just like hearing the perspectives from this community & don’t rly engage) I try to avoid eye contact and acknowledgment as a way to respect you. It can come across a little cold, which I'm trying to work on, but it's just respect for your boundaries and letting you know I'm not trying to hit on you or anything with some ulterior motive. If I know you well I open up more, but generally I try to be very professional and distant unless I'm invited by you to not be

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 16h

Maybe this is how I’ve been. I always wondered why it was easy to make friends with guys but not girls. I think I also mask more with girls because I’m used to being bullied for being less girly

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 14h

That’s not a way to respect us. If you are avoiding us it’s not respectful, it’s just avoiding us. Respecting boundaries is things like not hitting on us or not touching us.

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6h

The way to be respectful is to treat women the way you treat men. If you treat women differently, it implies that you see them as fundamentally different :)

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