Making me feel a new kind of hurt because I got super vulnerable with him and he just hyped me up so much and I shared things I don’t usually share about my own experiences

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Tbh not excusing his behavior but if hes been assaulted, he may have avoidant tendencies due to trauma or disorganized attachment. He mightve been rlly interested initially then went into a trauma response if he felt triggered by anything familiar (even if u did nothing wrong) or even in his hesd abt what ifs, and then pulled back out of fear and maybe didnt know how to communicate that, esp if he hasnt had trauma therapy. Please try not to take it personally (as a woman that does this at times)

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