Yes and same, even though I know I’m somewhere on the ace spectrum. My inexperience just feels like yet another growing barrier 🫠

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I was this way and didn’t do anything till I turned 21. The first time definitely wasn’t as anxiety filled as we build it up to be. I did freak the guy out a second because I had to take few deep breaths before I relaxed enough for him to slid in. He just went “ whoa you did it.” Later on it made me chuckle. My partner now feels my sexual kinks are almost my tism focused lol 😂. It’s probably true.

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If you can practice, we all 🫘👌so when you’re all relaxed and about halfway there try it, baby steps and maybe it won’t be so frightening when it happens with a partner

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