
i usually try to look pensive when i break eye contact, like i’m thinking about what they’re saying to me. so this can include small, quick eye movements to landmarks in the environment here and there, an occasional and veerryyy slightly furrowed brow, tiny nods, etc. that way it doesn’t feel like shutting the person down and ignoring them. subtle active listening body language makes a world of difference:) works even better when coupled with light vocal cues like “right”, “hm”, “ohhh”, etc.