I mean as long as you ease your way in and can actively use and practice impulse control in your daily life then it is a very enjoyable part of life. And I'd caution against sexual activity with people you don't know in your daily life for an extended period of time. It's a great tool for having fun and relaxing and making memories but also a tool and crutch for others to avoid there problems or take advantage of others in the sense that they have an end goal in sight.