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Do you ever act way too romantic with your friends and way too platonic with someone you actually really like or is that just a me thing? I keep pulling everyone except the one person I like bc idk how to be normal around them. This has happened 4 times.
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Anonymous 4w

To me it’s a problem with my autistic limerance and I have RAD so I have disorganized/avoidant attachments. I feel super romantically about my friends and that feeling never goes away bc I don’t act on those feelings to a point where we start dating, I’ve tried and failed. But with the people I date, they want to date me too instantly and I just feel like they don’t love me as much as my friends bc they give in to a future with me without fully knowing me. But my friends all wanna marry me in 5y

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Anonymous 4w

SAME I’m struggling with this exact thing rn

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Anonymous 4w

Now that you put it that way, I guess fucking so! 😭🥀🥀🥀

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Anonymous 3w

gulp why did you just describe an experience i’ve been struggling to understand. i literally just got asked “do you even like me it feels like we’re just friends” by my crush not long ago so ty at least we in this tg 😭😭

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Anonymous 3w

yeah its a huge problem for me thats why im an adult virgin

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