Get the fuck out of a women only space, you creep

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pathetic

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Especially when you recall that these are like the same people who are always so adamant that you believe woman about their experiences and how their experiences and perceptions of them are valid and how a man could never possibly know a woman’s experience and shouldn’t even speak on it. I would be interested to see how this stuff develops in a century although I’m sure this will all be forgotten and nobody will remember what the culture was like during this moment in time

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My experience is in dating a ton of people who wouldn’t be considered the top anything, but I dated them because they’re good people and reasonably attractive. That’s arguably more experience than men trying to get a date while being a terrible person, then blaming it on not being in the top whatever percent.

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Anonymous #5 8w

This is a woman only space. It’s in the rules you agreed to when you joined the space. And “believe all women” isn’t a substitute for proper investigation and rule of law, it’s just a good rule of thumb, because even now, women still get blamed even when they’re clearly the victim. I recommend watching a video the UK put out, where it shows how victims of rape are treated more like the perpetrator than as a victim.

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Anonymous #4 8w

“That’s arguably more experience than men trying to get a date” bc I’m a woman who has dated some people who “I dated … bc they’re reasonably attractive”. Facepalm 🤦. Again, why are we equating experience as a woman with experience as a male. That is not the same thing

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Anonymous #5 8w

It’s not lol, it’s just not. Can’t believe I have to say that

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Anonymous #5 8w

It’s not even in any way the same kind of experience or related. It’s just ridiculous crappy logic that’s exhausting to have to deal with

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Anonymous #4 8w

You were on the front page. Get off your high horse

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Anonymous #5 8w

It’s literally you assuming you know something that you don’t know and conflating your own experience as a completely different being and gender to areas where it doesn’t and could not possibly extend

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Anonymous #5 8w

Sounds as ridiculous as me trying to say I understand menstruation and childbirth or some shit bc I dated a girl once. Just stop

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Anonymous #5 8w

And you’re clearly a man in a space you agreed not to be in if you weren’t a woman. Get the fuck out of this space.

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Anonymous #5 8w

Also, get fucking ratioed. All the women here agree with me because a lot of them have similar experiences as me

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Anonymous #4 8w

🗣️ 😒 yeah let me just yell about shit and make stuff up and get angry bc I can tell I’m wrong and have nothing sturdy to stand on here but I already got myself into this and can’t imagine ever saying “oh you’re right my bad, that was silly”.

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Anonymous #4 8w

I also recognize you as someone who goes into the republican group and harasses people so it’s so incredible to hear you of all people throwing stuff around about, “you shouldn’t be here”. Ofc you’re the loudest person here as well 😒 what a problem personality we have here

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Anonymous #5 7w

How do you recognize an anonymous commenter? Or are you just annoyed by both of them so you’re conflating them. Also what a surprise that you’re MAGA, I never would have seen that coming 😂

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Anonymous #5 7w

Oh look! Another loser man inserting himself into women’s spaces again. What a surprise! also you being a republican checks out 100% lol🤡🤡🤡

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Anonymous #4 7w

You know what else all the women here have? Zero experience dating as a man. So you don’t know wtf you’re talking about.

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Anonymous #14 7w

Oh, look, more things you know nothing about.

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Anonymous #2 7w

Oh, look, this was my first comment on this thread so you’re just babbling.

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Anonymous #11 7w

I didn’t say I’m maga…

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Anonymous #5 7w

You people are such losers you sound so cringe and high intensity all the time

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Anonymous #14 7w

No, #2 knows some stuff - specifically that we have some trans women in this space, and that they’re welcome but men aren’t.

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Anonymous #10 7w

No when men say that they’re saying that women have it much easier and don’t face that problem

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Where did she punch down at all? Did we even read the same post?

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Anonymous #10 7w

Example A in this comment section

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Anonymous #15 7w

A smaller % of women do face those problems. And some men over-exaggerate. But, what we do know via every statistical analysis ever done is that women have significantly more dating options than men do on average.

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Anonymous #14 7w

Why is this getting downvoted? 80% of women pass on their genes and only 40% of men do, the dating market is rigged against men’s success, that’s the data lmao….it’s our nature as human beings, not a moral judgment.

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Anonymous #14 7w

Provide those statistics. It should be easy if “every statistical analysis ever done” proves your point. And I’m not talking about dating apps because the number of men who use those far outnumbers the women, so the situation is incredibly different, and the people that are on those apps are not an accurate representation of the majority. I’m talking about statistics on the general population.

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Anonymous #10 7w

It’s getting downvoted because the data actually shows the exact opposite, with women choosing to remain childless, and men able to donate sperm if they’re single but want a genetic legacy.

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Anonymous #4 7w

Lineage studies show that historically women pass their genes at twice the rate that men do. That’s a simple fact. Also, my comment that’s being downvoted had nothing to do with passing genes, just stating the also empirically demonstrated fact that women have more dating options than men.

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Anonymous #4 7w

Not all men can donate sperm and don’t women need to want a kid to use the sperm? You can look it up, most women are able to reproduce if they want, most men can’t…it’s just how it is…the dating market is far more harsh for men on average, but there is a big chunk of women who have it hard too of course, but it’s not as large.

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Anonymous #15 7w

You pick one. You can look at virginity rates. % of each sex saying they’ve gone x amount of time without a date or sex. Look at lineage data and see that double the amount of women pass their genes than men do. It’s all out there and easily accessible for you.

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Anonymous #10 7w

Because dating apps aren’t actually representative of the real world, and the data from those apps is what’s been misinterpreted and twisted by people with bad intentions to make big claims about humanity as a whole (like the percentage one) that simply aren’t accurate. In real life, plenty of women are passed over, and plenty of men are in relationships. It’s closer to equal, but a large majority of people just don’t use dating apps

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Anonymous #15 7w

This is from genetic data

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Anonymous #15 7w

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/24/women-men-dna-human-gene-pool

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Anonymous #15 7w

Here’s one for your trouble. https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/sep/24/women-men-dna-human-gene-pool

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Anonymous #14 7w

It’s your burden of proof, but if you’d like me to choose a study, how about this? https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2025/01/08/share-of-us-adults-living-without-a-romantic-partner-has-ticked-down-in-recent-years/

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Anonymous #15 7w

At younger ages there is a slight gap, and at older ages there’s a gap in the other direction

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Anonymous #15 7w

But overall, it been declining for everyone

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Anonymous #15 7w

So exactly what I’ve said. Women in our age bracket have it easier. If women at the older age bracket are having trouble, what does that say about older men? I’ll let you do the math.

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Anonymous #15 7w

None of what you said debunks the simple points that (1) women have an easier and larger dating poool; and (2) women have always and still do pass down their genes at a greater rate than men do. Stay on topic.

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Anonymous #5 7w

Biblical crash out lmao get a life bestie

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Anonymous #4 7w

You’ve conflated sex and gender. We are talking men and women as in the sexes. A trans woman is a biological male, I.e they were assigned M at birth. They are wholly irrelevant to the discussion of differences in dating statistics between sexes.

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Anonymous #14 7w

No they’re not? Because if they transitioned/came out later in Life, they have experience dating as a man? So trans women and trans men are the only folks who can say that they have seen both sides of the issue

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Anonymous #14 7w

Nope, they’re biological women. “Men” and “women” aren’t sexes, they’re gender categories. Neither sex nor gender are binary nor immutable, either.

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Anonymous #16 7w

I’m like the only person here not crashing out. Is all you guys do vomit up hype that falls flat about cringey stuff that doesn’t matter to anyone

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Anonymous #5 7w

Says the person who made 6 comments in a row w/o anyone responding to them in between

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Anonymous #16 7w

Why are you calling me bestie So many of you are getting a block from me ew

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Anonymous #2 7w

Biologically sex is almost entirely immutable. It is not binary. However, the vast majority of cases do fit neatly into M and F, from purely a biological standpoint. Trans women are women in gender and men in sex. That’s the case for almost all of them.

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Anonymous #16 7w

Heterosexual men and women are by and large not attracted to trans men/women. Trans men/women do not have the same dating experience as a person who’s sex and gender coincide.

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Anonymous #14 7w

Heterosexual men and women by and large do not know the person is trans until they tell them (per my trans friends, who have to worry about when to tell folks w dating — before they meet? At end of date 1? Etc). Trans men/women can (not all, but many) have the same dating experience as it applies to initial attraction/first dates

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Anonymous #14 7w

Regardless, #4s point stands. Some trans women have experience dating “as men” in their adult lives before coming out / transitioning. It doesn’t matter if you think they have the same experience as cis women post transition.

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Anonymous #14 7w

No, it’s not. It’s quite mutable. Women in gender and female in sex. But keep blabbing about things you don’t understand, it’s funny.

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Anonymous #14 7w

Surgery and HRT = mutable The terms man and woman typically refer to the gender category, while male and female refer to sex Trans women = assigned male (sex) at birth, actually women (gender identity)

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Anonymous #14 7w

I’m so fucking tired of your ilk. Seek help and learn to do and be better.

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Anonymous #15 7w

I read the post wrong at first as if OP was saying that she had no sympathy for women who complained about men only going after the top percentage because she lost weight and men pursued her. Like my brain just fully switched “men” and “women” and the whole post read like she was saying “women just need to lose weight to be pursued” so I’m assuming #9 may have done something similar tbh. I didn’t realize my mistake until I saw #4’s comments and realized I needed to reread the original post

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Anonymous #12 7w

Physical attractiveness shouldn’t have anything to do with treating someone decently. It’s fine if you don’t wanna date them but that shouldn’t be someone’s only motivation for being kind to ppl

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Anonymous #20 7w

Exactly that!

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Anonymous #2 7w

No? The entire gender vs sex argument is almost entirely semantics. You guys are arguing about the definition of a word.... Sex has both mutable and immutable traits, and can generally be assigned into a binary system that works out for the majority of people. Whilst Sex is on a spectrum, MOST people can be assigned to one that corresponds to their "reproductive role" for lack of a better term. I think both me and #14 respect gender, and that trans women ARE women

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Anonymous #27 6w

If you ever listen to what the guys in frats say it's genuinely awful. I remember listening to guys joking about cracking a girl who weighed more in one of the sororities. They acted as if she was undesirable and repulsive, so women genuinely get treated as subhuman when they're deemed unattractive or overweight.

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Anonymous #25 6w

I believe it. Everyone overweight is treated differently even just on a subconscious level but I’m sure it’s worse for women

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Anonymous #27 6w

I can’t even begin to count the amount of times someone has told me to 💀 myself over it.

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Anonymous #27 6w

Idk if I necessarily think it’s worse for women

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Anonymous #5 6w

I think women just tend to be more beauty focused or independent or less social in their lives.

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Anonymous #5 6w

*less independent

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Anonymous #5 6w

We get it, you look down on women, please fuck off

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Anonymous #21 6w

How do you even get that out of what I said, you realize that says a lot more about you how you just interpreted that and what you said than me right

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Anonymous #21 6w

Also how about I just do us both a favor and block you So many of these idiots just want to complain and have something to bitch about rather than actually solve any perceived problem. Get over it

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Anonymous #5 6w

what does this even mean. OP is talking about how men constantly complain about women going for the "top 10" only and saying she no longer has sympathy bc men treated her horribly before she lost weight (ie was in the bottom 90)

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