Dating feels like, if I try my hardest maybe I will be able to convince one person to actually like me and be nice to me. I feel like I just have to be the perfect person pleasing version of myself to get a relationship, and it’s supposed to be natural
same, it feels like i have to manage the other persons feelings if i’m in a relationship, and in reality i don’t have to, but i feel like if i don’t then it’s just going to end sooner