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I think the only answer is dating another autistic girl it takes one to know one
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Anonymous 16h

Me and my bf lol we didn’t know we were on the spectrum when we started dating but it makes a lot of sense. He understands where I’m coming from a lot of times and is open/willing to actually intellectually talk things through. It’s great 10/10 recommend

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Anonymous 15h

hard agree but you gotta have parallel autisms and not perpendicular autisms

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Anonymous 16h

Currently doing this and big recommend

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Anonymous 8h

I find I get along better with autistic men. I like some women too but men tend to respond to straight forward communication a little better usually. I’ve had to go out of my way to protect more women’s feelings, if a guy doesn’t like what I say he immediately shows the red flags or communicates to set me straight. My lady friends will sometimes internalize because that’s what girls learn rather than externalize so I need to be more careful about how I say something.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16h

give me your playbook

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 16h

Stumble across a lgbt+ speed date event in your city and end up talking about special interests

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