No, there is nothing wrong with you, dating is especially fucked these days especially due to dating apps. I don’t think it’s cool to flake on dates but I understand why you did it. A lot of girls are quick to just jump into a relationship and Thats in own kind of poison. Try to just do what feels right and hopefully that’ll guide you well

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I also want to stress that there’s no such thing as growing past your prime time. It’s a misogynistic societal expectation placed on women. It is a lot better to date when you actually want to/feel ready. I understand feeling a bit bad about canceling, but in moments like that, it’s better than forcing it. Can I ask what aspect of going on these dates feels stressful? You mentioned having 3 in a month, so I wonder if it’s overwhelm?

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Lowkey just buy cats they’re better than men and poop the same amount

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for me if i’m not instantly physically attracted, it never grows. so i look for physical attraction first and then get to know them. some people become physically attracted after they get to know someone. i think its helpful to try and figure out which you are. if its the first option id only go on dates with people you feel attracted to.

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there is no timeline, maybe feeling behind is making you feel overwhelmed?

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