You’re initiating contact. I’m kind of similar but with cacophonies, I love teppenyaki’s tapestry of sounds and scents, but if a dark ride gets stopped in a theme park, I am at risk of a sensory meltdown from the overlapping sounds - but only if it stops!

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i’m the same way, i think it has to do with different levels of vulnerability and intimacy that you don’t get from platonic relationships

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I think of it like I am a cat. I do not like certain people touching me at all, for the most part I do not like physical touch from people because it is unwarranted and I don’t feel comfortable with them. With the boyfriend I am close and comfortable enough to perch on his shoulder like a parrot. I know he is clean, i know he is trustworthy, I love him. Thats why I would be happy living as a leech on his forearm instead of any other human :)

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