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Why am I literally terrified of hookup culture? Like I don’t judge people who enjoy casual sex and wish I could fucking relax and have a one night stand but the idea of sleeping with a stranger is petrifying
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Anonymous 6d

i feel exactly the same!!

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Anonymous 6d

Do you think it’s less about your judgement, and more about your own anxieties, like performance and connection?

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Anonymous 5d

Please don’t throw away your innocence!!It is a priceless gift you though might not yet know the value of it yet

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

Oh, that’s 100% what it is. Like I said, I don’t judge people who enjoy casual hook ups. If anything, I’m envious that they’re able to be naked and vulnerable in the same room as a stranger and still have a good time! I want to do that!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

Maybe try small steps? Bringing a guy over to make out. Or finding other ways of building up your body confidence. You can absolutely get there and do that! Just don’t feel like you have to do it all in one go; that would be difficult for anybody. Small steps!

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 5d

I just feel like everyone went through that in high school and I’m late to the party. I’m worried I’m gonna be judged for my anxiety and inexperience

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Anonymous replying to -> light_blue_oncomin_yaker 5d

Ew. Anxiety is not innocence. I want to be an absolute fucking whore and am when I’m comfortable with someone, just not as comfy with people I don’t know as well.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 5d

You are never late to the party, trust me on that. Plenty of people first discover and experiment with this stuff in and out of college, me included. And if people are going to judge you for it, that reflects poorly on them, not on you. It just tells you they weren’t the right fit.

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Anonymous replying to -> light_blue_oncomin_yaker 5d

Are you a man?

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