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Bad Advice 13h
Am I cheating on my partner if I engage with someone online who’s into the same fetish as me? I only have love for my partner but since they’re not into my fetish I want some way to still live it out.
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Anonymous 12h

If you’re hiding it from your partner, yes. If you both agree to it, then no

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Anonymous 10h

Yes

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Anonymous 10h

What’s the realm of the fetish? If you’re worried about telling your partner, then you might be thinking it is internally.

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Anonymous 5h

Anything beyond a conversation or just being friendly can be considered cheating, if it’s sexting that’s cheating but if y’all are just talking about the fetish in a chill relaxed conversation it’s fine

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Anonymous 7h

Either hide it from your partner and live out your best fetish life online. Or tell your partner it’s really important to you and give them an ultimatum that they can either partake or you’re going to leave them.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

But what if I’m hiding it as a white lie tho?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

Damn fr???? Even if it’s a white lie?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

a lie is still a lie in your relationship. Dont expect someone to want to be with you if they’re unaware and can’t consent that you’re not being fully truthful. An omission of the truth is still a lie

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3h

Yes, dumbass 😭😭😭

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2h

Hiding anything this intimate from your partner is not a white lie. Reverse it. What if you found out he had this whole hidden sexual side he never told you about? Or what if he was addicted to OF girls and you found out? Would you be okay with it? If nothing else you should have a talk with him about you needing to gratify that part of yourself and see if together you can come up with a solution

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