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Is there any major point of making friends over acquaintances? Friends can be pushy over time and take advantage of your friendship. An acquaintance on the other hand knows their place and knows it’s not permanent and that soc ties can break much easier.
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Anonymous 13h

You can’t call acquaintances at 2 am to go to a random spot or if you need help

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 7h

You can it’s called the police

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 7h

I second this. I think the idea #1 is getting at is that friends will be there for you at night for fun activities and for things that you need help with that don’t require police. To that point, 1. There are services that you can use to help in these situations, 2. It’s not guaranteed that your friends will help you, 3. Even if they do, they will hold this over your head to bargain later on. I think it’s human nature. To me, friendship feels too transactional and I don’t understand the value.

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