body positivity is not it. Body neutrality is. please trust me. I’ve lost 45 pounds and I feel worse about myself than I did when I was bigger. When I was bigger, I wasn’t obsessed with how my body looked, and therefore, I dressed how I wanted to and looked amazing. if you obsess about how your body looks, it will look amazing one day and terrible next if you accept your body for the way it is, the beautiful and the ugly, then you let yourself be a person